Thursday, October 16, 2014

Remember Memories Take Time


 
As I walked into my garage and looked at my bike I felt sad. No not because I have an awesome Mountain Bike, But because I have not touched it in well over two months. Winter is coming! No not just a Game Of thrones reference, but a reality. The window is closing for me to get out on a few trails tear it up or even go on a nice ride with the wife (as she prefers not to tear it up but have a nice smooth ride for some exercise.

I pulled the Bike out of its little corner and just sat on it for a moment. Then had to get back to what I was doing knowing it would still be a little while till I could take my bike out and get the old blood flowing once again (preferably not through some body part after a crash)

I had not even looked too much at my monthly magazines. So as I got a little time to myself I caught up on the usual suspects, Bike and DirtRag, looking at the bikes I can’t afford (which is fine we can all dream) and more important reading the stories that got me pumped to get back out there.

So, I know I have written a lot about not being on my bike in this blog that is supposed to be me experiencing everything there is to experience on my bike. Call it bad luck, not enough time in the day, or just life getting in the way, but that is what makes those moments on the bike so memorable.  And all of the above excuses.

Sometimes you take away memories like a nice welt, bloody scab, or any other cut or bruise. Sometimes you take away the memory of getting over that hump (not necessarily an actual hump, but a hill you walked the last time, a jump you bit it on or a turn where you ended up on your ass in the woods.

Sometimes it is that perfect day for a ride, sunny no humidity, the bugs are not out in force. Maybe it is a hot crappy day but once you are in those woods it melts away as you pound the ground, under the cool canopy of the trees.  Or the time you spend with a loved one outside in the fresh air, getting a bit of exercise and experiencing it all together.

A bike is like anything else in life it is a means to an end. That end may be competition, it may be just to get your fat ass off the couch and get the heart going, it could be your means of living life to its fullest and accomplishing one new thing on this day you could not do the last time you rode. An Extra mile, a fancy jump or just getting to know some stranger who may only have one thing in common with you, riding their bike on the trail or paths closest to where you live.

I love riding my bike, I miss riding my bike, and I am going to get my butt out there, so I can tell you about my experiences as boring as they may be, riding my bike. Even this post you may not take too much away from it, but think about this. Every day we wish our lives away by wanting Monday to be Friday as soon as Monday starts. We all have busy lives, work is over, have to pick up the kids, their sports, teacher meetings, family events, you have to make dinner, the list goes on and on at the end of the day it is another day gone. Some of these things are worth it, my time with my wife and kids is very important to me and I would not give it back ever.  Make that time to go riding (or if you just stopped by this blog to check it out and don’t like riding a bike but like the outdoors GO OUTSIDE!) have your family go with you. My wife loves to ride. She enjoys the paved trails and likes to see different areas we have not seen yet (not much different to how I see trying a new backwoods trail, she just prefers taking it in on a smooth dry, solid surface. But it still works out if you have followed me for any length of time you know I have written about how we ride together and she will let me hit the Mountain Bike trail for a little bit while she rides for a while with our one year old in tow only to meet back up and finish our ride together.  I love watching TV just like anyone, but I can tell you more about the feelings I have while enjoying those rides with the wife than just about anything else we do on the couch (get your mind out of the gutter this is not that kind of blog) I don’t need selfies, or pics, I have the memories in my mind. I still remember the first day last year we took out our new bikes and put the baby trailer on her bike. It was not exactly warm (relax the baby was in an all season trailer she was warmer than both of us) but the thrill of pedaling and talking about life with my wife, stopping to have a beer and a sandwich along the trail,  made that cold day all worth it, along with the Giggles coming from the baby trailer. Even if I never would have found my love of going off road, that day was worth the price of those bikes.  
In closing I want to say, I get it more than anyone. Life gets in the way, you get exhausted and just want to veg out (and there is nothing wrong with that, we all need that time once in a while) But make time, for yourself, for your family, for your bike. Or you can just do all three at once….Happy Trails
 

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